I was watching an interview on TV today about women working from home instead of in the office once they have had children (revolutionary topic!?!?).
It reminded me how fortunate I am working for a company which has provided a flexible working environment which has changed from working full time in the office, to full time at home and pretty much every combo of them both in between throughout my career. Whilst I have been afforded this luxury, I know that not every workplace can be this flexible and on the flip side, there are some employees who exploit the flexibility provided to them. Making it a very tricky subject.
In the interview today they also talked about how other workers often look unfavorably upon women with children being given flexibility that they don’t feel like they are afforded. Like the non-smoker who curses the smokers who get extra breaks, there are always those who will strike out with “..that’s not fair”. Infact, I remember watching some of my colleagues coming into work at 9.30am and leaving bang on 5pm while I slaved away into the evening, thinking “i’m never going to be one of those people”.
There is a great sign up at my kids school is says “Being fair doesn’t mean being equal. It means everyone is getting what they need to succeed“. I love this statement and annoy my kids with it all the time now. Because it is so true.
As a Manager, you need to work with everyone in your team individually. To understand what is important to them, what do they need to lift them up higher and make them fabulous? And what one person needs, is not what everyone needs. And those needs can change dramatically throughout someone’s career. Great Managers execute on this for their team because they know they will reap the rewards ten fold.
Now I am that person who sometimes comes in at 9.30am and leaves by 5pm. I work from home a lot and walk the dog in my lunch break. And I am 100 times more productive than I ever was when I was sitting at my desk for long hours wasting time judging my co-workers.
We need to stop comparing ourselves with others. It’s not whether you have children or don’t. whether your a woman or a man. If the person in the seat next to you (or working from their office at home), isn’t getting the same as you, that’s OK…infact, that’s just how it should be.